If there's one thing that I've learned from over the years is the best advice to give is always from what you learned from experience... Although I have yet to part of a relationship for the longest time, believe it or not there are some 'lessons' I've learned albeit it was the hard way.
This phrase is a 'relationship kryptonite': "I'm sorry, I'm busy." After hearing it the first few times it's understanding. Hearing after five or six times translates (even if it's re-worded in several ways) as frustration, eventually it may lead to having look for someone that will make time.
Some sage advisers may tell you make yourself busy with something else other than the relationship. In other words, turn the tables around on the one who's too busy for you by giving them a dose of their own medicine. Part of me sounds skeptical about the outcome. This is a problem if you want to start the relationship...
In some situations the person might be somewhat reluctant to be in a relationship and therefore makes themselves 'busy' as a excuse. My advice is be charming and tell them something about yourself interesting that's worth waiting for. 2:1 odds of a good chance he/she may their schedule cleared to make time for you.
The other advice for this problem is the one who actually does have very little time. When you do have the time in your relationship make him/her feel special in every possible way. Don't forget to repeat this process until you can make more time in the relationship. When dating try to make it at least five minutes to one hour of your time. Longer you spend time for one day, better the relationship.
I hope this advice will help for whoever needs it...
Nov 30, 2008
Relationship Advice That I Can Give
Posted by The Andy Man at 9:51 PM
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