Harder Than It Looks

After licking my 'wounds' from my post-Valentine woes have me thinking about a few things.  Up till now, I've been blaming The Fates (and still stand by this belief) why I have yet to be in a relationship in the past few years. Answer: It's not me, it's them. 

My guess is most girls either don't have the confidence to ask guys like me to a date and/or too afraid to approach me in conversation. Truth told, I feel the same way but I don't show it.  What I've learned over the years: IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD IF SOMEONE REJECTS YOU.  Recently I've become carefree and aloof with the opposite sex.

How?  I just woke up one morning and became confident without any explanation.  Maybe it's a psychological conditioning.  Who knows why anything happens for whatever reason.

The only thing I know is that if I were asked out for a date it would mean to me this individual proven the right to be considered my equal.  My only promise that I could make is treating her as one. Compatibility only goes so far in a relationship but equality , honesty and respect goes farther making it stronger.