Cheat This

Recently, I've stumbled upon the show "Cheaters". It's a syndicated reality series about investigating possible cheaters. My personal opinion for this show is toxic for the mind. Whilst I condone myself for watching it and judging the reactions, I'd like to make the assumption that events could have been preventable.

Just for the record, IF cheating were to occur in my relationship the initial reaction would be thoughts of vengeance. However I wouldn't act upon these actions since it wouldn't be the gentleman's approach. Eventually there would be communication and an understanding that I'd forgive but not forget.

All in all, the only thing that matters is knowing she is happy with who make her happy. For her to accept me back into my life would mean requesting sincere change and more open communication. Without a doubt in my mind, I believe in second chances, honor and respect. On a technical note, I have yet to have anyone back in a relationship. There's a story too embarrassing for sharing on my behalf, yet I wish her well.

One of the things that I've learned is that a good relationship has to have a strong foundation of both communication and understanding. Always listen and understand the needs between you and your lover. The last thing anyone should do is take your relationship for granted. Reasons why people cheat is because there's purposing lacking respect for the other person.

Why I know all of this is largely because I've heard a lot of heartache. IF and when I am in a relationship, one of the things I promise is to always listen and understand of what's needed to make my relationship something worth while filled with love and respect. Every day should feel special, warm and moving.

I could post finite information about relationships without being in one. Lord knows I try not to and yet I do it only because I care. For anyone that reads this should know having finite knowledge about this subject means I am and can be the few souls that's willing to share an infinte amount of love with another person. For now I hope someday love will come my way, even if I must wait forever.