What I'm REALLY Looking For (Honest)

I could write several blog posts of what I'm looking for in a girlfriend.  Honestly it's the same of what I'd be looking for in a wife.  First and foremost I'd like to be in a relationship that's open and honest, change me for the better only because she cares about me and without a doubt in my mind someone that can make a good meatloaf meal.  

Somewhere in the mix of things I know there are ladies that are  sweet and angelic in nature, nasty demons in the bedroom, fun loving and everything else that I may have mentioned in my previous postings. Finding someone with intellectual wit for myself is an ideal persona but take away the honesty, she would just be a 'wanna be' that's wasting my time.  Also I don't want to be with a girl that spends most of her time on a cell phone, it's both a pet peeve and a turn-off.

Having bad habits means we are only human. But I'm also willing to change my ways only if you care enough to say so.  Yet at the same time I don't want to bend over backwards just to please you.  In other words, please don't ask for me to change overnight, accept the fact it takes baby steps with a lot of patience.  Remember that Rome wasn't build in a day and patience is the greatest virtue for anyone can have.  

Last but not least, I love meatloaf plain and simple.  This might not be my kryptonite but it's very close.  Just for the record I will never reveal my kryptonite via blog or even as a secret tweet. But I will know if I have a girlfriend that reads my blog and the one I know is devoted to knowing who I am as a person.  Hence I know this is the one I want to eventually reveal my one mortal weakness.